Excuses: Are They “Good†or are they “Bad?â€
We all make excuses. I remember in elementary school, making up excuses to get me off the hook for not doing my homework. Magic was usually the reason that I did not do my homework. I was too immersed in my passion to toil over meaningless book reports…. My grades may have suffered, but my magic got better!
Magic was a GREAT excuse!
“The man who thinks he can and the man who thinks he can’t are both right. Which one are you?”
– Henry Ford
What is your excuse?
I hear the following “cop-outs†almost on a daily basis.  Which one do YOU use the most?
No Excuses!
Mahdi Gilbert amazed the world with his passion for magic. He COULD have come up with MANY excuses for NOT following his passion.
Thank you Penn & Teller for hosting this man on your show FOOL US. Now the magic world has a new hero! Just look at this amazing man doing what he loves. Mahdi inspires all of us to move beyond our limitations.
Are there “Good†Excuses?â€
Yes!
Hard questions, easy answers!
Do you get people asking these questions?
“What do you REALLY want from your life?â€
“Are you happy with your life?â€
“Are you doing what you REALLY want to do in life?â€
“What is next for you?â€
Wow! I had to sit down to think and write about this for a while. I made a list of what I feel are the most important things in my life. First, I have a wonderful relationship with my wife Abigail. That is the most important part of my life and what I focus on the most. We run a Las Vegas magic show. Our magic school and lovely home are open to friends and students. We have many dear friends and we are in good health… we are very blessed. So what do we focus on NOW? Now it is time for us to help others live THEIR life’s dream! I am grateful for the great team we have here at the school. We are all here to help and serve YOU!
Scholarships to Empower Your Magic Dream!
Larry Hass helped us develop our scholarship program to help those of you with the passion, but who need some financial help to take advantage of one of our classes. We don’t want that to be an excuse that prevents you from following your magic dream.
Take a look and see how we can help you!  http://virtual.magicalwisdom.com/members/signup
A hint: watch this to the end. It really rocks!
Life Lessons from the Masters
The following 2 great artists never let their challenges get in the way of their passion and vision! Matthew Buchinger was born in Germany without hands or lower legs. He was 29 inches tall. In the 1700’s he became a world famous magician and artist! He toured Europe to entertain kings and aristocrats with amazing feats of physical dexterity, and was known as the “Little Man from Nuremberg.”  Buchinger was married 4 times and had at least 14 children (by eight women). He also is rumored to have had children by as many as 70 mistresses… Go Matthew!
DID HE MAKE EXCUSES? No he was too busy living his dream!
Despite his having small, finlike appendages for hands, his art engravings were incredibly detailed. Despite his handicap, Buchinger was an accomplished magician, causing balls to disappear from under cups, and birds to appear from nowhere. He was reported to be unbeatable at cards and would dazzle audiences with his amazing displays of magic.
The Maestro of Magic
René Lavand was a magician from Argentina. René lost a hand in a car crash at age 9, and taught himself how to perform exquisite sleight-of-hand magic, utilizing only one arm. I had the great pleasure of sharing time and magic with Mr Lavand. He inspires all of us to move beyond our limitations, and towards mastery.
Historic Passion for Life!
25 years ago I was performing in Barcelona at the Olympic Arts Festival, when the following incident took place. This amazing story touched the hearts of millions. Derek Redmond has a magical story to tell you. He will be remembered for his unstoppable passion for running.
Be inspired by this great story.
DON’T GIVE UP ON YOUR DREAMS! WE ARE HERE TO INSPIRE YOUR NEXT STEP!
I hope you enjoyed this month’s McBride Muse Letter. It is a joy to explore these topics with you. We get great pleasure out of sharing our inspiration and magic with you. Please let us know when you come out to Las Vegas. Abigail and I will roll out the red carpet for you!
Yours in the magic of life,
Jeff and Abigail
p.s. we are having a party…
Your Invitation to Mystery: The Biggest Magic Party in Las Vegas—WONDERGROUND!
photo credit :Â Sheryl Ann Garrett – Photographer of Magicians
Wonderground News—Meet the Magic Live Mystery Guests!
Thursday August 18th is the next WONDERGROUND. Get to the Olive early to get a good seat! www.vegaswonderground.com
7:30 PM – Christian Diamond is your host
Strolling Magic with Miguel and Juan Pablo Allen Scott & Mulee Pete offer Tarot Readings |
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8:00 PM – Jeff McBride MC Joe Givan and Carol Massie – DreamMasterz Jhony the Joker! – Magic with Mystery Kevin Hall — Towers of Teller Bill Cook – Magic in a Bottle! Nathan Phan – From TV’s Wizard Wars BIZZARO – Master of Demented Delusion |
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9:00 PM – Christian Diamond MC Nathan Phan – A Man with Magical Plans for his Fans Bizzaro – For him “Normal is just a setting on the dryer!†Jeff McBride – Always a wonder to remember! Tim Wise & Zach at the WONDERBAR |
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10:00 – Jeff McBride MC Bill Cook – “The Competition Act!†Michael Trixx – ABRA-cadab-ROCK! Natalie and Eli – Quick Change Artistry Nathan Phan – Magic, Music, and Mayhem Ryan Stock and Amber Lynn – Rising Stars of the Bizarre! PLUS! MAGIC LIVE MYSTERY GUESTS |
PLUS: Bar Magic: Zack Pattee, Scott Steelfyre, Iam Creed, The NWR-Tribal Belly Dance Troupe, Mystic Sideshow with Mulee Pete, Alan Scott, live art with Areeya and many more surprises and special celebrity guests!!
They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.
–Carl Frederick Buechner
Dear Friends:
Tobias here, writing from my Wizard’s Corner!
Jeff, Larry and I have just returned from the National Speakers Association’s Influence conference in Phoenix. Jeff’s mainstage performance opened the first general session with a standing ovation response. We got to present a miniature version of our Magic for Speakers and Presenters workshop, make some new friends, and to attend several of the sessions at the convention. The performance and presentation went very well, and I’m looking forward to seeing some of those who attended at our class for speakers & magicians in November.
We also got to see a number of magician friends who were attending. Pretty much universally, they asked us “not to tell everyone†they were there—or that they are making quite a good living doing magic as speakers. I expect they’re having too much fun, making too much money, and really don’t want too much competition from other magicians! We’re going ahead with the class in November, anyway. It’s not just for magicians who want to learn how to build and deliver great talks using their magic, but for people already doing speaking who want to learn our “magicians’ secrets†for doing better presentations. As those of you who have attended any of our classes know, “magicians’ secrets†include a lot more than just how to do various tricks.
I’m a rank beginner in this world of professional public speakers, and therefore something of an outsider. I think that can actually be an advantage. As a beginner, I get to see the whole experience with the eyes of an outsider, and take different insights away with me. Here are some that I think you might enjoy:
So: I know that most of you don’t want to become speakers, and may not be interested in the world of speakers. Still… in the past couple of weeks we’ve endured (or loved, depending on your proclivities) two national political conventions, with the chance to view many and varied speeches before large crowds–and those speeches varied widely in terms of their purpose, content and entertainment value. I generally dislike almost everything about politics—but if you can step back for a moment and look at the whole thing as a big game, with lessons to be learned for all—a campaign is certainly a great time to observe what makes a great talk, and what doesn’t. Not only that, but with this country as polarized as it is, it’s fascinating to observe that the things which make a great talk for one side, with their perspectives, make for a terrible talk for the other, with theirs.
What, you may be wondering, is the relevance of all this when it comes to magic, magicians and those who love magic?
I think it is extremely relevant. A talk is a presentation, and so is a magic show. What makes one great, probably applies to the other. Just as a talk needs to have a clear purpose—a thing that it is selling (I told you we would come back to that)—so does a show. Just as a talk must have a good through-line with a clear beginning, middle and end, so does a good magic show. Just as any good speaker knows, their talk must take facts and logic and wrap them in stories and experiences involving their audiences—so must a magical performer make their tricks into a show that will actually move an audience and be remembered.
So, over the coming weeks and months, I hope you’ll take some time and make an attempt to step out of the fray; that emotional cauldron that is our political system, and watch talks by each of the candidates before various audiences. They each have distinctive styles and messages. Each commands audiences in a different way. As performers, what can you learn from each of them?
Remember, one of the great principles of true wizards—those who make a larger “dent in the universe†than others– are those with the ability to view any situation from multiple perspectives. When you can view even a highly emotional event like a political speech from many different points of view, there is much to learn. For most people, the campaign is a time to align with one candidate or the other, and they limit their experience of the campaign to doing that. There is, however, so much more to be learned by observing the process with different mindsets. Observe not just what each candidate has to say, but how they appeal to their particular audiences. What kind of stories does each one tell? What sort of experiences do their talks provide for the audience in attendance? Are the talks calculated just to affect the audience in front of the speaker, or are they also consciously tailored for the opponent’s audience, to give a different experience? Have they thought to make them effective not only for the live audience, but also for the one watching on video?
In this day of YouTube and on-demand video feeds of all kinds, it’s easy to watch the same speech, or parts of that speech, several times. I think it might pay to do that, and to consciously try and see the talk from a different point of view each time you watch it. First, just watch it as yourself. Then try and see it as someone from the opposite political camp would. Then as if you were a director, hired to help the candidate better reach his or her audience, perhaps a fourth time through. You’ll want to watch as though you were a viewer living in Europe or elsewhere.
This is something I do with a magician’s performance when I’m directing. I generally don’t fully “get†a performance until I’ve seen it at least twice… and my notions of how to improve it often don’t fully kick in until two or three days of rehearsals and viewings. It is only when I’ve had a chance to fully understand what is going on in the performance on several different levels that it becomes clear how we can best change that performance in order to improve it. Often, we don’t know until we’ve seen that particular performance in front of several different audiences.
I hope I’ve made the case that there is much we can learn from speakers—our fellow performers, in many ways. I also hope you’ll join us for one of our upcoming events, whether that be the 7-day Master Class in August (1 slot left), for our new class on business and marketing for magicians, called Money is the Best Applause, or this year’s Magic & Meaning Conference celebrating 25 years with our Dean, Eugene Burger, and with keynote by our good friend Bob Fitch–or any of the other rapidly approaching events here at the McBride Magic & Mystery School. Oh… and, especially, do consider Magic for Speakers & Presenters, which is slated for early November. Whether you’re a magician looking to add public speaking to your repertoire, or already a speaker and you want to learn some magician’s secrets (including tricks!) that will enhance all your future talks, it promises to be a great way to expand your current abilities!
A couple of quick reminders before I go: Our subject on Mystery School Mondays this month is “Paper Prestidigitation,†and our opening, all free episode is Monday night, August 1, on www.mcbridemagic.tv. Also: if you know someone else who would enjoy this Museletter, please let them know! The link to sign up is here: http://www.mcbridemagic.com/join/
Best wishes for a magical August!
Sincerely,
Tobias Beckwith